ABOUT
TRANSMUTE
Turn the things that weigh you down into new energy and fuel for the future you wish to create.
TRANSFORM
Access the knowing within to become the full authentic self you were always meant to be.
TRANSCEND
Reach new levels of awareness and mindfulness and become increasingly unshakable.
I'M VIVIAN
I often think back on my life as a series of awakenings. With each awakening, more of the baggage and old patterns that no longer serve are shed.
Many of us grow up being taught a formula for success.
Our social norms often adhere to a limited view of success that is focused on prestige and monetary "security". As a result, we can miss out on success that takes a multi-dimensional form. Success that includes what makes us happy, fills us up, connects with other people, aligns with our authentic selves and values, and makes our souls sing. Success that becomes secure and feels unshakable within ourselves.
I'm here to partner with you to find how you define success. How to align the next steps of your journey to your values and the deep knowing within you. How to build unshakable bonds within your family, despite all that you are going through. If you are looking for this, you've come to the right place.
MY STORY
I grew up following the formula for success. Work hard in school, get a good job, build a stable life, get married, have children, and be happy. In that order. While my hard work paid off in landing me in a well-paying 6-figure career through my 20s and 30s, it brought me less and less joy and connection over time.
I faded into the background as a side character in everyone else's story, including my own. Until I awakened to the possibility that I could still be the main character of my own path and carry the impact that I had always desired.
And so, I walked away... from my 20+ year career. I navigated a 4 year divorce process after realizing that staying in my marriage meant increasing unhappiness for both my then-husband and I. Rather than a future where we could both live our best lives.
And I chose this: a dedication to my own path of self-discovery, healing, transmutation, transformation, and transcendence. Along with a philosophy to parenting that has allowed me to build unshakable bonds with my two beautiful children through our family divorce, which I have now codified into my "Unshakable Family Program".
Parenting through divorce is one of the hardest things you'll ever do. But I promise you, it doesn't have to be the end. It is also a beginning. I am living proof that there is levity, joy, purpose, and an unshakable bond with the people who matter most (including the one with yourself) on the other side. And I am honoured to guide and support you there.
"The strategies and tools provided during our session were practical and tailored to my specific needs. I left feeling inspired, motivated, and with a clear action plan to move forward. Since implementing these strategies, I’ve already seen significant progress in both my personal and professional life and relationships."
Allison C.
MY APPROACH
I believe deeply in emotional and psychological safety for my clients and myself.
My practice is all about learning and discovery. I believe that you are the expert in your own life. That no one is more of an expert of your life situation, what you want, and what you need than you.
My job is to create a safe space for you to be able to slow down and process and digest the codified Unshakable Family system I will share with you. Together, we will apply this to your life and unique circumstances.
My desire is that through this system, you will be able to support your children and build unshakable bonds with them through and after your divorce. But also that you will uncover an unshakable bond with yourself in the process.
