HI, I'MÂ VIVIAN
I often look back on my life as a series of awakenings. With each one, I’ve shed more of the patterns and beliefs that no longer served me, and stepped closer to the truest version of myself.
Many of us are taught a formula for success: chase prestige, earn security, do what’s expected. But that version of success often leaves us disconnected from ourselves, from joy, and from the people we love most.
As a somatic coach and parenting expert, I help people redefine success on their own terms. Success that includes presence. Connection. Alignment with your values. And the deep self-trust that makes everything else possible.
Whether you’re navigating parenting through divorce, healing childhood wounds, or rebuilding your nervous system after burnout, I’m here to support you in creating unshakable bonds with yourself, your children, and the things that matter to you.
MY STORY
I grew up following the formula for success: work hard, get a good job, build a stable life, get married, have children, and be happy. And for a long time, I did. I built a 6-figure career, had the marriage, the family, and from the outside, everything looked right.
But over time, that version stopped feeling like mine. I became a side character in my own life, disconnected from the joy and clarity I was craving.
So I made the hardest decision of my life: to leave a 20+ year career and walk through a four-year divorce process after realizing that staying meant growing unhappiness for both my partner and me. It wasn’t easy, but it was the first real yes to myself in a long time, and the end of abandoning my own needs to keep everything else afloat.
Leaving wasn’t the end. It was the beginning. A path of healing. Of rebuilding. Of choosing alignment, even when it was hard.
In the process, I developed a trauma-informed approach to parenting that helped me stay deeply connected with my children, even as our family changed.
Today, as a somatic coach and parenting expert, I teach the very tools that helped me navigate divorce without losing myself or the bond with my kids.
Parenting through divorce is one of the hardest things you’ll ever do. But I’m living proof that on the other side, there can be levity, purpose, and an unshakable bond with the people who matter most, including you.
"Our sessions gave me exactly what I needed... clear tools that actually made sense for me. I left each session feeling inspired, motivated, and like I finally had a real plan I could follow. Since then, I’ve already seen a big shift in both my personal and professional life, and in how I show up in my relationships, too."Â
Allison C.
MY APPROACH
I believe deeply in emotional and psychological safety for you and for me.
My coaching practice is rooted in curiosity and respect. I believe you are the expert in your own life. No one knows your story, your children, or your inner landscape better than you do.
My role as your somatic coach is to offer a safe space for you to slow down, reflect, and apply the codified Unshakable Parenting system to your unique situation. Together, we’ll explore what’s coming up for you and how to bring more connection, clarity, and confidence into your parenting and your life.
My hope is that through this work, you not only build unshakable bonds with your children, but also come home to the one relationship that shapes them all: the one with yourself.
BECOMING UNSHAKABLE
This isn’t just self-work. It’s self-return.
TRANSMUTE
Turn guilt, grief, and overwhelm into insight, energy, and fuel for the future you want to create.
TRANSFORM
Let go of old patterns and reconnect with the most authentic version of yourself: the one that's always been there.
TRANSCEND
Rise above what once defined you.
Access new levels of clarity, resilience, and self-trust... and become increasingly unshakable.
